Tuesday, August 30, 2016

'What a small big world it is'


We have been the happiest of campers.

We have had the best time in Canada! Chris took a week off work and planned a road trip for us ... after Mike's birthday breakfast we loaded up our RV and the 6 of us piled in and of we went! We loved Canada ... we started in Quebec and then went on to Prince Edward Island. There were times when I felt like it wasn't real ... travelling through Canada in a RV ... it all seemed a little surreal. We are so very, very lucky to be able to have these kind of adventures. We did well in a confined space ... the odd leak over the front bed at night ... and not always a good nights sleep. Pete and I tried to be respectful of Mike and Chris' family time and give them space ... we didn't want to be 'cling ons'

I hope we go back ... especially to Prince Edward Island ... it is beautiful ... the light is wonderful ... soothing ... romantic! We have seen some beautiful countryside, had lots of beach time and swum in the Atlantic ... it is freezing ... like NZ ocean swimming, or at least South Island beach swimming. 

This is a  big post, I try to be selective in my photo choice, but there is a theme ... lars and Roxcy. We are short on time now ... we fly out on Tuesday to Utah to meet Josh, our son in law's Mother, Marlene and spend a couple of days with Sash and then back to NZ. 

We stocked up on Canadian dollars on our way out ... their money is so colorful and easy to distinguish between note denominations comapred to US paper money ... reminds me of NZ money and the familiar face of the Queen. NZ's $5.00 note won an international award for the most artistic design for 2016 ... I did not know there was such an award, but we won it. Canada here we come ... we are ready for you. 

I am not sure what it is, but it seems to take a minimum of 2 men in our family to look something over ... work it out and then do it ... in this case there are 3 Cammock men figuring out what to do next. I find these moments so funny ... and in the end it comes down to who is right ... I can hear Pete saying 'aha! What did I say' when he is right ... there are quite a few strong opinions happening in these moments. Seeing Lars there reminds me of Mike as a boy ... always wanting to be part of the process and making his suggestions. 

Mike and his cell phone ... they are never far from each other. His phone rings or dings a lot. He is hot property ... people wanting him all the time. Not for me ... we won't even answer the phone at home at times. I have a vivid memory of our landline ringing one time too many and Pete threw it over the fence into the school ... someone had to go and get it ... surprisingly it still worked! I think I would find the constant calling and dinging stressful ... for Mike it is part of his job and he has to be available. I sometimes wonder how healthy it is for us to be that available all the time. Our family gets really annoyed at us because we are so 'difficult' to get hold of ... I can hear Mack saying what is the point of having a cell phone if we are not going to answer it. Pete and I have had a conversation around disconnecting our LL and going cell only ... I am not sure I can do it. I am too old fashioned I guess. 

Our first stop, Old Quebec City ... our breakfast/brunch ... cheese and egg crepes ... I really liked mine ... I love cheese and these hit the spot for me. We lived off baguettes, hummus, cheese, salami, lots of berries and clemintines. ... very yummy. Pete's go to meal is banana dogs, which is a banana wrapped in bread, he has been eating those for almost as long as I have been with him. 

Salvador Dali's statue Alice at Play. I remember Salvador being big in the 70s ... I thought I was so cool because I had a print of one of his paintings on my wall ... I am not sure I would have one now, there always seemed to be a creepy aspect to them ... I really liked this statue of his. 

 
Old Quebec is beautiful and is situated within a wall, we had to drive through new Quebec to get to it ... it is not very big ... there are some beautiful old buildings here and a lot of activity. While wandering the streets I noticed this semi attached house ... 2 different roofs and if you look carefully you can see there are 2 different shades of white/cream on the exterior ... subtle but noticeable. I was fascinated by it! How did these neighbours decide where to stop and start with their choice of color ... did they come to an amicable agreement ... what if they had painted two very different colors that neither liked??? So many questions when living so close.  

Enjoying a bit of busking ... the day was so hot! I really enjoy street performers ... such a summer thing and the sense of  being part of a group of people having a good time.

Inside a Catholic Cathedral ... this photo does not really show how beautiful it is but I had to include it. The Catholics really know how to create beautiful spaces in their cathedrals. They are works of art and this cathedral was no exception. They capture light so well in their design and the stain glass and art work is beautiful ... beautiful colors.

We came across this beautiful Bugatti replica ... the driver was very generous in letting us take a photo and he tooted and waved as he drove of. It sounded beautiful!

Our little 'fighter Roxy' ... 

I was intrigued by the number on the door ... and the color. I am in love with blue this year ... not all shades, but this is a shade I love.

I am in love with this little guy ... 

Taking some time out of a very hot day to run through the splash pad ... cool down and get all our clothes wet. I love this face ... she says everything with her face.

Lars loved this RV. There are 3 classes of RVs ... A Class, B Class and C Class. Our model is a C Class ... Lars loves the A Class, which is this type ... I am pretty sure that this RV has a washing machine and dryer in it. Since discovering the newer A Class RVs lars has become disillusioned with our very modest C Class and now refers to it as a 'rust bucket' ... I can see a Cammock trend in him ... a budding maximiser. I would feel embarrassed pulling up in a RV this size ... there are often cars or trailers being towed behind these big rigs as well ... they really are huge.

There are good campgrounds and not so good ... campgrounds in this part of the world are different to NZ, there are not so many RVs to start with. This is the campground we stayed in in Quebec and it is packed with RVs ... Pete felt like he was in hell staying here ... they pack the RVs in ... looking into each others windows ... no privacy at all. Anyone who knows Pete knows how he loves his privacy. He gets really upset about the basketball players on the weekends next to our house in ChCh ... so much so that he has planted fully matured Magnolias around our fence line that boarders on the school in the quest for privacy. 

Coloring in as part of our entertainment package ... I was pretty useless at it as a child ... sometimes I despair at my lack of artistic ability ... I did this one though.

We stopped for lunch and Pete the curious took lars and Roxcy and went checking out the boats that were moored by our lunch spot. Pete has had a hankering to buy a a boat and sail the Pacific ... he gets sea sick though.

The bridge that joins Prince Edward Island and the mainland of Canada ... this bridge is the longest bridge over a body of water that freezes in the world.

We visited Green Gables, from Anne of Green Gables ... our visit here was inspiring and moving. Memories of Sash came flooding back to me ... I loved reading Anne of Green Gables to her and it was so much fun to read ... 'Anne with an E'. I loved the years we had Sash live with us, our home was full of life ... lots of young people ... energy ... fun. Well thats how I remember it any way ... our family members have a different memory. This is the wall paper in the entrance way of the house that is in the story. 

I love these lace curtains at the windows of Green Gables ... I loved learning about the author's life, Lucy Maud Montgomery ... she was a very impressive woman! She married at 36 to a minister and moved off Prince Edward Island but she loved her life here and this beautiful part of the world. She was a very progressive, independent and creative woman. Apparently she suffered from depression throughout her life and rumour has it she committed suicide in her 60's ... she is buried on Prince Edward Island.

Anne's bedroom ...

A wander down lovers lane ... we are going to watch the tv series again ... I want to read the series to Meg.  

The Haunted Woods ...that Anne used to wander.

After Green Gables off to the beach ... for some serious bathing time!

The floating walk way to the beach. 

I loved these ... I noticed them as we walked across the floating walk way ... they were blowing in the wind so beautifully and gracefully.

The end of some serious sand castle building ... one was left on every beach we visited.

Finishing the day with fish and chips ... we liked our fish ... the chips were more like fries to me ... chips need to be thick, chunky, covered in crispy batter and loads of salt.

Caught the sunset at the 'end of the world' with these guys.

I think our C Class looks pretty spectacular here.

One of our better camp grounds ... we tried to avoid KOAs on Prince Edward Island ... this was a beautiful spot to stay ... Pete insisted I post this photo even though you can see his shadow while taking the photo. We spent a beautiful night here ... the coast line is wonderful and the night sky was amazing ... the milky way was right over us and looked spectacular.

So many memories of Mike and Dungeon and Dragons ... playing with Pita and his friends. Mike has introduced the game to Lars and they spent time playing with these cards while on the road.

 
Lars jumping off the bridge at one of the beaches we visited. He did it all by himself, with no coercion or convincing and it is quite the jump, about 8 feet ... then Pete, Mike and I joined him. When I was putting up these photos Chris saw this photo of Lars and said 'Lars has to be the coolest kid on the earth' and she looked so proud of him. Chris is a wonderful Mum ... her face lights up when she sees her children ... she is so proud of them and thinks they are  awesome and they think she is awesome.

A sunset on Prince Edward Island ... the sky looks like it is on fire!

A sunrise the next morning ... we got up early and went walking along the beach ... the light and the sky looked beautiful. 

There are over 40 lighthouses on Prince Edward Island ... I have always loved lighthouses, they look so cool the way they stand out on a peninsula or cliff top. This one has a light  that blinks all day and night.

The life of a flower ... this flower is past its flowering stage ... I still find it beautiful and eye catching in a different way. I am hoping that is what old age or late adulthood is like ... as I turn 60 this year I move into a new phase in my life that I hope will be just as eye catching, interesting and meaningful.

The remains of a metal post that Mike drove over in the RV ... it  was a lucky miss with our LPG tank ... there was a little damage ... it sounded more serious than it was.

We came across this beautiful field of sunflowers, which reminded me of Bulgaria. We had to stop and take a photo ... Pete thought it would be good to get right in amongst them and Roxcy wanted to join him. 

We stopped of at Victoria, a gorgeous seaside artisan town on our way of Prince Edward Island ... reminded me of Akaroa. We visited a chocolate store with hand made chocolates and I had a hot chocolate. I am sure you know from some of my posts that I really like hot chocolates and it is not always easy to find a good hot chocolate. I like my hot chocolates strong ... which here means sweet and I like them made from dark chocolate, (which is almost non existent here) and hot. This was dark, strong and hot and worth the stop!

Some music time ... Chris and Roxcy love to lip sync. Chris is really good at choosing good dancing music ... hard not to want to get up and move.

At the Canadian boarder heading back into the States ... making sure that the last of our Canadian dollars are spent and there is no change ... first the duty free store and then the vending machine.

Our little lover and fighter ... she even looks a little like she is fighting in her sleep.

Saying goodbye to these two wonderful little people is going to be very, very hard. We have had the best of times with them.

We fly out to Utah Tuesday evening and will be meeting Lucy's Mother in law and spending a few days with Sash, Jordan and Pena ... then we fly out Saturday back to NZ. Since we have been here there has been a serious earthquake in Italy that we knew nothing about and ongoing killings and destruction in the Middle East ... and of course the US Elections. News that we have missed and as we move back into the 'real world' begin to flood our consciousness. I feel bad that I have been so ignorant of the happenings around us ... we have been lost in our experience with our family and tripping around US.

This morning I sat on the outside steps of the gym waiting for Pete and I listened to the sound of the cicadas ... felt the warmth of the day on my skin ... noticed the light falling through the trees and heard the crows making their presence known. We will miss Windsor ... we will miss the warmth ... we will miss the greenery ... we will miss our family ... we will miss this part of the world ... in a good way.

Saturday, August 20, 2016

I am Blessed

I feel very privileged, blessed, lucky that we are able to visit our family here in the States as often as we have. I have secretly had the dream that we would spend part of our year with our children in the States, Thailand, Fiji ... where ever they are and the rest in NZ ... working hard to pay for our travel. I did not think that it would really happen and at times wondered if I was being 'greedy' ... part of a first world problem ... 'FOMO' as our friend Tom says. The RV has been part of that dream. Giving us independence, a place to sleep and the means to go of travelling as the mood suits. That dream has become a reality for us over the last few years and I am grateful.

One of the great things about travel is the easiness of it ... the simplicity of it and the great insight that travel brings with it ... insight into our functioning ... I know I have said this many times but the most cumbersome part of our luggage is ourselves ... there is no getting away from 'me'. Even so I am grateful ... grateful for the experiences that life offers each of us so abundantly ... the adventures that are there for us in what ever form they may take. Being here with Lars and Roxcy is wonderful for us ... to get to know them better. There is a 'big' difference between being a parent and being a grandparent. Age is one of the noticeable differences ... energy another ... longevity another ... we will be a memory, a fond one I hope, for our grandchildren but with our children we will always be with them in some form another, in a good way I hope!

Here are some highlights from the last couple of weeks ... hard not to have Lars and Roxcy in the mix.

There are many uses for a RV ... letting off toy planes ... war ... getting away ... and all on the roof.

An afternoon of stone painting with Roxcy ... I cannot tell you how much drawing and painting terrify me! I cannot even draw a stick figure! Roxcy and I spent a good couple of hours drawing on these stones ... painting the undercoat and then decorating them. Mine is on the left ... Roxcy was so cute she said 'yours beautiful, it is perfect and my favourite'... what can I say!

The hottest day of summer ... we walked down to the pond and spent a few hours sitting on the bank or beach as they call it here in Windsor, and swimming ... a day well spent I think.

We did a weekend workshop on Emotional Intelligence and Mindfulness facilitated by Daniel and Tara Goleman at the Omega Centre in Rhinebeck New York State. A very cool place to relax ... meet interesting people ... enjoy yummy food ... yoga, meditation and learning. The last time we were here was in 2008 and we have been meaning to come back ... we got in our RV, drove for a few hours and arrived. We stayed at the RV park 1.5 miles up the road and intended to walk each morning. We walked the first day ... we were swarmed by mosquitoes ... what was meant to be a very enjoyable and relaxing walk became an assault. I think Pete really suits this kind of environment ...

The morning light at Omega ... 

The cafe at Omega sells local ice cream ... Killer Chocolate is one of their flavours ... it is the best chocolate ice cream I have tasted ... no I did not have two ... 

I love the architecture of bridges ... I think it is the steel and they look so strong and beautiful to me. This bridge spans the Hudson River.

Windsor High School Rugby/Grid Iron team ... I am fascinated by men's interest and enthusiasm around ball sports ... there are so many of them ... I have never got it ... I am not a rugby girl ... I don't know the rules, but I do know that it seems to bring out the competitiveness and bad temper in men at times.

Yes Roxcy you can fly ...

Lars and I spent some time counting out his money in his money box. Lars loves lego and he loves Star Wars and they make an absorbing combination. He has a Star Wars lego book with all the different types of lego in Star Wars figures that any little boy could think of. The one that he really wants at the moment is the Drop Ship ... it is $US780. He came downstairs with all his money and a look of excitement in his eyes thinking that he had the full amount ... we spent the next hour counting out all his coins ... he is $US740 short! Sometimes it is the most simplest moments that are the most beautiful ... this is one of those moments with lars for me. I loved every minute with him ... I remember a similar moment with lucy, she was in her early teens and we sat on the landing together looking through photos ... that was a precious moment for me then and it is still now!

A birthday boy ... I will always remember Mike's birth ... our lives were changed forever

A breakfast celebration before we head of to Quebec. I love doing birthday breakfasts ... having lots of yummy food on the table ... lots of color. I always get a little anxious that we there will not be enough ... the FOMO in me but there is always plenty and left overs. Yep we have had some very yummy birthday breakfasts at our house.

Some of my favourites ... berry combo and avocado and feta cheese smash! Yummy!

Sitting together watching Jurassic Park ... I remember when we watched it as a family ... we all found it terrifying. Get a load of Lars' eyes ... he looks scared!

I would be scared of this too ...

We are of to Quebec in a few hours ... I am looking forward to it.